Gold WeddingWire Rating - 2010

Rev. Jeri Murphy is now WeddingWire Rated for 2010

Sacramento, CA) – (July 7, 2010) - WeddingWire, the nation's leading site for wedding reviews, just announced that Rev. Jeri Murphy is WeddingWire Rated 2010 for Wedding Officiant. WeddingWire Rated is an annual award program for wedding professionals based on hundreds of thousands of recent wedding reviews.

WeddingWire Rated, the industry's first formalized review program, is the most recognized and trusted brand among engaged couples looking to locate wedding businesses. The award program recognizes wedding professionals across the country, like Rev. Jeri Murphy, who have demonstrated an exceptional commitment to service.

Rev. Jeri Murphy has 26 reviews on WeddingWire. These reviews have been written by past clients of Rev. Jeri, and include detailed ratings and insightful descriptions of the newlyweds' experience. From quality of service to overall level of professionalism, these reviews showcase the high level of service newly engaged couples can expect from Rev. Jeri.

"We are excited to unveil WeddingWire Rated, now in its fourth year, as a way to recognize wedding professionals for their commitment to service," said Timothy Chi, WeddingWire's CEO. "WeddingWire Rated allows wedding businesses to clearly differentiate themselves in their market, while providing engaged couples an easy way to find the best services for their wedding."

Rev. Jeri would like to thank her past clients for sharing reviews of their weddings on WeddingWire. Reviews for Rev. Jeri Murphy can be found across the entire WeddingWire Network, which includes WeddingWire, Martha Stewart Weddings, Project Wedding and Weddingbee.

For more information, please visit Rev. Jeri Murphy on WeddingWire at Rev. Jeri Murphy’s Storefront.

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Une célébration merveilleuse!

(That's French for "A wonderful celebration!")

While working toward a degree in French, Katie spent a year studying in the south of France. She says, "This was a big adventure for me, and taught me so much about myself." During every school break, she explored France as well as many neighboring countries, and her wanderlust took root.

When she and Brandon met, they discovered their shared love of travel was only one of many common interests, including backpacking, home improvement projects, fine dining, and wine tasting. Over time, they became best friends and life partners, which led -- naturally -- to their wedding celebration on July 3rd!

Choosing their wedding venue was easy; both love rich, fruity red wines and they fell in love with Avio Winery in Sutter Creek, not only for the wine but also for the beautiful and intimate setting for their ceremony.

Working closely with their fabulous wedding planner, Shelley Larkin of Pizzazz! Event Planning, Brandon and Katie transformed the courtyard at Avio to represent "the South of France" -- allowing them to celebrate with family and dear friends without the jet lag of international flight!

Their ceremony included a non-traditional wedding party: Katie's brother, Jon, was one of her attendants, calling himself the "Bride Squire," and Brandon's sister, Kiersten, brought an extra touch of beauty as one of the groom's attendants.

Katie and Brandon surprised their mothers with a special presentation of roses ... they held back tears as they listened to the hands blessing ("These are the hands that, even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours; still giving you that same unspoken tenderness with just a touch") ... and they sipped both a dry and a sweet wine, symbolizing their commitment to share both challenges and happiness in marriage.

All in all, it was "une célébration merveilleuse!" Congratulations, Katie and Brandon!

Avec l'amour et les bons souhaits!
Rev. Jeri

A "Must-Read" for Any Emotional Bride

A few years ago, while planning her wedding, one of my colleagues told me of a great resource she found. No, it wasn’t about table décor, or finding the perfect dress, or creating a signature drink for the reception.

It was about the crazy and stressful array of emotions she was feeling – and finding out that her confusion, anxiety and “negative” feelings were all normal.

Sheryl Nissinen wrote “The Conscious Bride” after polling brides of all ages and finding that, like her, their journey down the aisle – and the months before and after – was filled with much more than joy, excitement and everlasting love.


“There are few occasions in life more beautiful and awe-inspiring than a wedding. When two people decide to solidify their commitment, they begin the sacred journey of marriage, which begins with the engagement and continues through the rest of their lives.

. . .

“For some, their engagement is a joyous time filled with planning and animated discussion about their wedding day and future life together. For most, however, the engagement is a combination of excitement, stress, bliss and confusion.

…

“The road that leads to and from the wedding day is not always smooth. … the engagement, wedding, and first months of marriage can be a difficult time where one person in the partnership [usually the bride] feels overwhelmed by emotions and forces that she has never experienced and does not understand.

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Through reading this book you will explore the reasons behind the common tendency for women to ‘freak out’ at some point during their engagement, wedding, and/or first year of marriage. ….”

I would highly recommend this book to any bride, whether she’s newly-engaged, recently-married, or approaching her first wedding anniversary. (And grooms, you might want to read it too; you may be able to understand your beloved’s behavior a little better.)

PS: You can find this book at the library; I did!

Soulmates

"A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks ... Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life." (Excerpted from "The Bridge Across Forever" by Richard Bach)

Chris and Kellie met three years ago, when they were introduced by a mutual friend. There was an immediate spark of attraction, as they found they share many interests, values and goals. Both are friendly, fun and witty; they enjoy going to movies, plays and concerts, playing softball or Scrabble, and traveling. Although they tend to be homebodies, they enjoy spending time with friends, and both place a high priority on family.

So yesterday afternoon their dear friends and family gathered to witness their wedding ceremony, held at a private residence situated on the banks of the Truckee River. Chris and Kellie honored their parents by presenting roses to their mothers. Chris's sister, Katy, presented a reading from "The Bridge Across Forever," and Kellie's brother, Shawn, read the Irish Wedding Blessing.

Family and friends enthusiastically promised to support the happiness and success of Chris and Kellie's union, through the highs and lows of their life together.

And since the candles would not stay lit during the Unity Candle Lighting, we acknowledged Mother Nature's playfulness and used our imagination to pretend that the candles were glowing. Of course, the inner light of Chris and Kellie's love was clearly aflame!

The wind also challenged their DJ, Matthew Strong, by blowing over the wireless amps. However, Matt and his team quickly and smoothly resolved the problem; they are true professionals. And rumor has it that the river-side party continued well into the night!

Congratulations, Chris and Kellie! Enjoy your fabulous Hawaiian honeymoon, and thank you for letting me be a part of your wonderful wedding celebration!

Blessings,
Rev. Jeri

Glitz and Glamour!

"In 1893, George Washington Scribner, being lured into farming by the rich, deep soils of the Sacramento River Delta, settled along what is now called Scribner Bend. The river bend became a vital shipping point, picking up produce, mail and passengers by steam boat.

"The Scribner family ranch runs along the Sacramento Delta where the family has farmed for over 100 years. Their most recent addition is their Scribner Bend Vineyards.

"The original barn built in 1918 was featured in Sunset Magazine’s March issue “Winter Roaming along the Sacramento River” in 2002. Today the barn has been completely renovated and transformed into a unique tasting experience that includes the new Tuscan indoor venue room, tasting room and event for weddings, picnics, birthdays, reunions and more."

I have had the pleasure of performing many wedding ceremonies at Scribner Bend, most recently last Friday (May 7th). The weather was warm, the breeze was minimal, the ambiance was welcoming, and the ceremony was personalized and perfect for Alex and Laura.

On Sunday, May 23rd, from noon to 5:00 p.m., Scribner Bend Vineyards will be showcasing some of the finest wedding professionals in the Sacramento area. I'll be there, and I hope you'll come visit this beautiful wedding venue, enjoy some wonderful wine or champagne, and meet some of the best people in the wedding business!

PS: Tickets are $15 at the door. However, the first five brides who contact me can get in for free as my guest!

Love Cannot Be Hidden

I am reading a little book called "Let Nothing Disturb You." It's a 30-day meditation book based on the works of Teresa of Avila.

Today's meditation is this:

My Day Begins:

The soul that truly loves God
loves all good,
protects all good,
praises all good,
joins itself to good people,
helps and defends them,
and embraces all the virtues.
It loves only what is truly worth loving.

Do you think that it is possible
for anyone who truly loves God,
to care for vanities, riches,
or worldly pleasures and honors?
Such a person cannot quarrel or feel envy,
for she aims at nothing
but pleasing the object of her love.
Whether your love of God is great or small,
it must show itself.
Love for God can never be concealed.

When you love God deeply,
it will be plainly evident in many ways,
for a large fire throws a bright and clear flame.

A love that is strong and just,
that grows for as long as we live,
that there is no reason ever to end,
a love that is returned so fully --
can a love such as this be concealed?

If you ask me how such a love is to be attained,
my answer is:
Resolve firmly to do and suffer for God,
putting your resolution into action
whenever the opportunity occurs.
Your love must not be just something you imagine,
something you desire.
You must prove it by works.


I think this is beautiful, and I would like to modify it a bit, either to include in the "Marriage Address" portion of a wedding ceremony, and/or to offer as a vow that might be included in personal vows.

Is it appropriate for a wedding ceremony? I would love your thoughts and comments.

Love,
Rev. Jeri

Advice from the experts ... married couples!

Recently I posted a question on my Facebook Fan Page: "What is the best love / romance advice you have for newlyweds?"

The respondents varied from a soon-to-be-wed bride (May 2010) to a woman who will be celebrating 55 years of marriage in December! (What an inspiration you are, Nancy!)

Here are some of the responses:

From Nancy G., who has been married for 30 years: Choose your battles, don't dwell on the small stuff, it's not worth it.

From Patty G.: Never go to bed mad or without resolving an argument! ... Happily married for 7 years...together for almost 12!

Carrie P., who will marry Paul on May 29th, says: The most important thing to remember is respect. As long as you respect your partner, and they respect you, everything else will fall in place.

From Kathy H. a newlywed of one year: Never take one another for granted ~ appreciate the little things ~ hold hands ~ put a little love note where it will be found when you are not around.

David B. has this sage advice: Don't EVER say that whatever your spouse does to irritate you, that they remind them of one of their parents .....example: "You act like your Father/Mother!" :(
That's like dropping cluster bombs!!!!!!

And Nancy F., married since December of 1955, says: You must nourish a marriage--it cannot survive without respect, faith, trust , and humor -- a couple may become a family-but they need to always remember they were the original spark-and need to retain their own relationship , as their lives change throughout the years.

Excellent advice, from the experts.

So, what's YOUR best advice on love and romance? I'd love to hear from you!

Rev. Jeri