Advice from the experts ... married couples!

Recently I posted a question on my Facebook Fan Page: "What is the best love / romance advice you have for newlyweds?"

The respondents varied from a soon-to-be-wed bride (May 2010) to a woman who will be celebrating 55 years of marriage in December! (What an inspiration you are, Nancy!)

Here are some of the responses:

From Nancy G., who has been married for 30 years: Choose your battles, don't dwell on the small stuff, it's not worth it.

From Patty G.: Never go to bed mad or without resolving an argument! ... Happily married for 7 years...together for almost 12!

Carrie P., who will marry Paul on May 29th, says: The most important thing to remember is respect. As long as you respect your partner, and they respect you, everything else will fall in place.

From Kathy H. a newlywed of one year: Never take one another for granted ~ appreciate the little things ~ hold hands ~ put a little love note where it will be found when you are not around.

David B. has this sage advice: Don't EVER say that whatever your spouse does to irritate you, that they remind them of one of their parents .....example: "You act like your Father/Mother!" :(
That's like dropping cluster bombs!!!!!!

And Nancy F., married since December of 1955, says: You must nourish a marriage--it cannot survive without respect, faith, trust , and humor -- a couple may become a family-but they need to always remember they were the original spark-and need to retain their own relationship , as their lives change throughout the years.

Excellent advice, from the experts.

So, what's YOUR best advice on love and romance? I'd love to hear from you!

Rev. Jeri